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My name is Ryan Matthew Setliff. I'm a sinner saved by God's grace. I look to the tender mercies and grace of my Lord Jesus Christ and I am not ashamed of the Gospel of Jesus Christ. I am theologically an historic Baptist, and was raised in a Congregational Christian church. I attended Christian colleges at Liberty University and Regent Law, and have a B.A. in Pre-Law.

Saturday, March 29, 2008

Head to Christ



Saved from an addiction to methamphetamines and a life of sin, guitarist Brian Welch experienced a radical Saul to Paul transformation when he was called out by God to be a Christian. Read it about on his web site Head to Christ.


Sunday, March 23, 2008

Resurrection Sunday

Today, is the set day in observance of the atoning death, burial and resurrection of my Lord and Savior Jesus Christ (John 19:30-31; Mark 16:1; Mark 16:6).


A Psalm of David.


1 The LORD is my shepherd;
I shall not want.
2 He makes me to lie down in green pastures;
He leads me beside the still waters.
3 He restores my soul;
He leads me in the paths of righteousness
For His name’s sake.
4 Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,
I will fear no evil;
For You are with me;
Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me.
5 You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies;
You anoint my head with oil;
My cup runs over.
6 Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me
All the days of my life;
And I will dwell[a] in the house of the LORD
Forever.

Saturday, March 22, 2008

Sex and the Supremacy of Christ



Sex and the Supremacy of Christ by John Piper (Editor), Justin Taylor (Editor), Ben Patterson, David Powlison, R. Albert Mohler Jr., Mark Dever, Michael Lawrence, Matt Schmucker, Scott Croft, C. J. Mahaney, Carolyn McCulley, Carolyn Mahaney. $15.99.


I've blogged about just about everything from current affairs to economics to history to politics to theology, so why not sex? Albeit sex from a Christian perspective. Genesis 2:18 notes, "The LORD God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.'" So, God made Eve for Adam, and thus this blogpost got inspired.

To kick off this feature, here is an excerpt from a tongue-in-cheek chat conversation this past summer with one of my mischievous, albeit humorous Christian friends. And to protect the innocent, we will just call him Scott, since that's his name.


4:37 PMScott: something a friend of mine did is both amusing and outlandish - very in the spirit of certain gadfly PB posts of late
he posted a countdown on his website
me: what's that?
oh
4:38 PM Scott: entitled: "Sex Time! (aka marriage aka, lifelong comittment, etc...)" - 34 days and counting down
his fiancee's response: Umm... THAT does not start at 6:30 ;) But I love you and am looking forward to you!
me: did i just hear the s word?
4:39 PM me: there is more to marriage than just making love to a woman...
okay
lets see
there is...
hmmm...
still thinking...
uggh
well hmmm
well, i'll have to get back to you on that
but i am sure there is something else to marriage :P
lol
4:40 PM Scott:
lol


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Sex and the Supremacy of ChristRecently, in 2005, Crossway Publishers released an anthology of essays entitled Sex and the Supremacy of Christ edited by pastors John Piper and Justin Taylor. For many Christians, it's a taboo subject—unspoken but sometimes tacitly alluded to. What this book does is go beneath the surface, and examine a pivotal issue in light of Scriptural teaching. Sex is how us humans go about procreation. It's also a recreation.

God has a design for this: and the model sexual relationship between a man and a woman is based upon monogamy within the confines of holy matrimony (Genesis 2:24). Monogamy is the condition of having only one mate in a relationship, thus forming a couple. The word monogamy comes from the Greek word monos, which means one or alone, and the Greek word gamos, which means marriage. (It does NOT mean serial monogomy however. i.e., a series of long- or short-term, exclusive sexual relationships entered into consecutively over the lifespan.) Intimacy of this kind, (that is monogamy,) is subsumed in marriage vows, lifelong commitment, trust, and mutual fealty. God does NOT sanction sex outside of marriage which is fornication, which is sinful and not at all characteristic of the new man in Christ (1 Cor. 6:9-10; 1 Cor. 6:9-10; 1 Pet. 4:3). The Scriptures tell us to "flee fornication," and to "flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness" (1 Cor. 6:18, 2 Tim. 2:22). In other words, avoid all sexual lasciviousness like the plague.

In accordance with Scripture, Michael Lawrence observes that:
Sexual intimacy is all about union. Physically, of course, that's obvious. But there's so much more. In sexual intimacy, we also know a union that is emotional, as our hearts are knit together even as our bodies are. We know a union that is intellectual, as we come to understand and know one another in intimate detail. We know a union that is even spiritual, for as every married couple figures out, the best sex isn't when I make sure I get what I want, but when I forget about myself, and give myself for the blessing and delight of my spouse. And at that moment, we are very close to the heart of Christ, "who loved the church and gave himself up for her" (Eph 5:25).
Lawrence, Michael, Sex Is Not About Waiting. Boundless. 7 Dec. 2006.
Because, a multitude of people in this day and age are not willing to accept the consequences of sex (namely children,) and it's often times pursued merely at convenience and not within the confines of holy matrimony, there is a widespread societal disconnect between sex as God intended it to be and the popular conception of sexuality which is promiscuous and without real commitment. Increasingly, many people want to separate sex from its consequences, but they cannot. It's no coincidence that sexual primuiscuity has correlated with a significant rise in sex-out-of-wedlock relationships, divorce, the proliferation of pornography, the rampant proliferation of venereal disease, and the rise of abortion-on-demand since its ostensible 'legalization' in the U.S. in the 1973.

Meeting on the Turret StairsWhy exchange marriage vows? Why wait? Marriage signifies a life-long commitment, and the solemnity and sacredness attached to the occasion inculcates the integrity of the ordinance of marriage in the hearts of the marrying party. Marriage is about lasting love, trust, mutual fealty, commitment, and compassion, and sexual intimacy is not what defines marriage, but complimentary to it.

Biblical Greek scholars know that "agape" in Greek speaks of a deep, intimate, selfless, and unconditional love. But "phileo" on the other hand is sort of a casual, friendly brotherly type of love. When Jesus asked of Simon Peter do you agape love me, Peter could only say he phileo loved his Savior. Jesus repeated the query, and Peter responded again in similar fashion. Jesus finally changed his query to do you phileo love me? (John 21:15-17) An underlying message can be drawn out of that message—specifically as it relates to Christian marriage. First, work on the brotherly love before laying claim to the unconditional love. Next, those living expressions of phileo and agape must be realized following marriage vows before laying hold of any claim to eros (i.e., erotic love.) If we are not ready for the commitment of the former love, trust and communion, than we are simply not ready for the later physical intimacy and marriage.

The Puritans have been derided as sexually-repressed prudes by modern secularists. While the Puritans sheltered public exhibitionism in favor of chastity, they extolled the purity and virtue of marital intimacy in fact. The Puritans rested their societal norms on a foundational expectation of public chastity and modesty precisely to guard the sanctity of marital intimacy from temptation. In their view:
Marriage was a gift from God that established two Christians as partners in grace. One of its purposes was edification; husbands and wives were to encourage each other in spiritual things. at the same time, the Puritans viewed marriages as a romance. This was virtually an innovation, for the Renaissance ideal was courtly love, in which romance transgressed the boundaries of marital fidelity. But the Puritans combined love and matrimony to promote the Biblical ideal of romantic marriage—a passionate partnership in which even the sexual act of love (or "due benevolence," as they called it) was a means of glorifying God in the body. To summarize, the Puritans viewed marriage as a "high, holy and blessed order of life, ordained not of man, but of God, ...wherein one man and one woman are coupled and knit together in one flesh and one body in the fear and love of God, by the free, loving, hearty, and good consent of them both, to the intent that they too may dwell together as one flesh and one body, of one will and mind, in all honesty, virtue and godliness, and spend their lives in equal partaking of all such things as God shall send them with thanksgiving.
Boice, James Montgomery, and Phillip Ryken, The Doctrines of Grace: Rediscovering the Evangelical Gospel. (Wheaton, IL: Crossway, 2005,) p. 46.

"Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh."
—Genesis 2:24




Awww. That's so sweet. I'm gonna cry. NOT!


Love and marriage can yield a fruitful, satisfying relationship when properly nurtured, and a relationship to conducive to happiness, joy, and emotional and spiritual well-being. The secret to having a successful marriage from a Biblical perspective is abiding in Christ and His Word. Jesus says in John 15:5, “I am the vine, you are the branches; he who abides in Me, and I in him, he bears much fruit; for apart from Me you can do nothing.” Abiding in Christ, entails sexual morality, and for a married couple their desire must be for another, and no one else. That's a significant part of the "one flesh" concept. The essence of sincere, marital love, Martin Luther argued, was wholehearted devotion to the good and well-being of one's spouse:
Martin Luther
Where conjugal chastity is to be maintained, husband and wife must, above all things, live together in love and harmony, so that one cherishes the other wholeheartedly and with complete fidelity. This whole-hearted devotion is one of the chief requirements in the creation of a love and desire for chastity. Where it is found, chastity will follow as a matter of course, without any command. Therefore St. Paul (Eph. 5:22-25) so diligently admonishes married people to love and honor each other. Conjugal love or the desire to marry is a natural affection, implanted and inspired by God. Therefore conjugal love is praised so highly in Scripture and is so frequently adduced as an example of the relations existing between Christ and His Christendom.
John Piper and Justin Taylor, Sex and the Supremacy of God. (Wheaton, IL: Crossway, 2005,) p. 240.
There is a strong emotional attachment to sexual intimacy, and there is likewise strong emotional withdrawal when a person one is intimate with is suddenly removed from the scene. God never intended men/women to be promiscuous, and even the pagans lament the perils of promiscuity. Christians should deplore the way of the world, which is: Hook up. Shack up. Break up. The pleasures of sin only last a season (Heb. 11:25). The world says immediate gratification, whereas the Bible more or less tells us that marriage embodies life-long commitment, mutual fealty, unconditional love, and a spirit of self-sacrifice and trust.

Again, in point of emphasis, God's design for sex is between a man and woman, and such a relationship is only properly consummated only within the bonds of holy matrimony. For those that stumble into sexual immorality, there is forgiveness in Christ with repentance. However, there is no guaranteed immunity from the emotional withdrawal and the guilt of sexual immorality. Sin has consequences.


C.J. Mahaney Sermon on Sex and the Supremacy of Christ


The Holy Scriptures reminds us that the intimate love of physical intimacy is something to be belated (Song of Solomon 8:4), but nonetheless something to be embraced with joy within the confines of holy matrimony. The tenor of Scriptures is quite clear that there is no shame in intimacy so long as it is within the bonds of marriage between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24-25). Sex within marriage is God-glorifying, and a married couple can approach physical intimacy with a clean conscience before God. Ben Patterson writes:
The Goodness of Sex and the Glory of God
“My lover is mine, and I am his”—this formula appears at key points in the Song to emphasize the exclusivity of the lovers’ commitment to each other. It is also a formula on the human level of what is true of God and his people (Hos. 2:23). In the context of this glorious, amorous, monogamous exclusivity her lover “feeds among the lilies!” The covenant promise has an erotic dimension: they belong to each other to the fullest, and they may and will enjoy each other to the fullest. “Lilies” or “lotuses” describe not only the beauty of the beloved, but are metaphors for a man’s lips (5:13), and the part of a woman’s body surrounding her breasts (4:5). She enjoys this so thoroughly that she wants it to last all night: “Before the dawn comes and the shadows flee away, come back to me, my love.” Specifically, she wants him to “run like a gazelle or a young stag on the rugged mountains.” Here she visualizes him enjoying her “mountains,” the contours and clefts of her body (cf. 4:6). He too waxes eloquent with a flurry of metaphors and similes to stimulate the imagination of the most unimaginative reader.
“How beautiful are your sandaled feet, O queenly maiden. Your rounded thighs are like jewels, the work of a skilled craftsman. Your navel is as delicious as a goblet filled with wine. Your belly is lovely, like a heap of wheat set about with lilies. Your breasts are like twin fawns of a gazelle. Your neck is as stately as an ivory tower. Your eyes are like the sparkling pools in Heshbon by the gate of Bath-rabbim. Your nose is as fine as the tower of Lebanon overlooking Damascus. Your head is as majestic as Mount Carmel, and the sheen of your hair radiates royalty. A king is held captive in your queenly tresses. Oh, how delightful you are, my beloved; how pleasant for utter delight! You are tall and slim like a palm tree, and your breasts are like its clusters of dates. I said, ‘I will climb up into the palm tree and take hold of its branches.’ Now may your breasts be like grape clusters, and the scent of your breath like apples. May your kisses be as exciting as the best wine, smooth and sweet, flowing gently over lips and teeth” (7:1-9, NLT).
Put simply, he feels about her the way a student expressed to me his love for his fiancée: “I look at her ... and I can’t breathe!” Breasts like grape clusters? A navel like a goblet of wine? Thighs as finely shaped as jewels? Is this really in the Bible, the Word of God? It really is! How wholesome and richly erotic sex can be when enjoyed in the ways and within the context God intended. How much better it is than the cheap, toxic ways the world recommends. Contrast the joy of this text with the confusion and shame a young man experiences as he walks past the lingerie in the window display of a Victoria’s Secret store...

What are the theological foundations for this celebration of sex—and what does it have to do with the glory of God? The gigantic secret of the joy of sex is this: Sex is good because the God who created sex is good. And God is glorified greatly when we receive his gift with thanksgiving and enjoy it the way he meant for it to be enjoyed. The reason we like sex so much is that it is a little bit like the God who created it. Therefore, the more sex is enjoyed in ways redolent of its Creator, the better sex is for all involved—to God’s glory and our sanctification and joy. The church father Irenaeus nearly reduced it to a formula when he said, “The glory of God is man fully alive, and the life of man is the vision of God.” The vision of God: that’s where the theological foundations come in. I think there are five.
John Piper and Justin Taylor, Sex and the Supremacy of God. (Wheaton, IL: Crossway, 2005,) pp. 53-54; 55.
Boy Meets GirlMy friend Brad Cochran, a seminary student at Southern Baptist Theological Seminary in Louisville, KY, wrote this thoughtful article entitled Sexual Immorality: The Cheapening of Pleasure. Here is an excerpt:
GOD CREATED SEX. Yeah, that's what I said. God created sex and therefore, He knows best how sex is supposed to work. He intends for us to get much pleasure out of it. In fact, if we have any faith in God (or any experience of real love in the context of marriage) we should trust that sex is more enjoyable when it is stewarded according to God’s standards. God’s not a kill-joy—He just knows what’s best for our everlasting joy and pleasure. If we put God first and handle our sexuality the way God intended, we would not only have a better society, but we would get more pleasure out of sex, and more joy and long-term fulfillment out of our relationships. We settle for such cheap, temporary, destructive, weak pleasures that we miss the intense, eternal, all-satisfying and ultimate pleasure which comes from the hand of God.
Related Articles:
Boundless - The Best Sex (Is Never Premarital Sex) by Anne Morse
Boundless - Girls and Sex by J. Budziszewski
Boundless - Sex Is Not About Waiting by Michael Lawrence
ChristianAnswers.com - Why should I save sex for marriage?
Ensor, John, Doing Things Right in Matters of the Heart
Reformissionary - Sex and the Supremacy of Christ

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"I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, do not stir up nor awaken love until it pleases."
—Song of Solomon 8:4

"Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart."
—2 Timothy 2:22



Friday, March 21, 2008

Devotional - Escaping the Perils of Spiritual Quicksand in God's Strength

The Real-Life Phenomenon of Quicksand!
I've been in hollows in Virginia and North Carolina that few people know about... from the Back Bay, to the Dismal Swamp, to the gator-infested banks of the Cape Fear. In these areas, one is keenly aware of the phenomenon of quicksand, which can form just about anywhere. Though, it is especially common in environs with sandy soil and within the vicinity of a large body of water, swamps or groundwater streams. I do believe as a teenager, I lost a shoe to the sandy mire one time.

Real Quicksand is a bed of loose sand, silt or clay mixed with water, which forms a soft malleable shifting mass that yields easily to pressure and tends to engulf objects that tread across its surface. Through the centuries, the geological phenomenon has been a source of fear in the popular imagination. It may even appear solid to the human eye. The fear it elicits, often owes to the suddenness we experience it. Unfortunately, humans and animals have been found in the depths of quicksand, so it can prove fatal and the danger should not be underestimated. Though, generally quicksand is misrepresented in the movies as an albatross abyss larger than life that swallows people whole. In reality, the geological formation is seldom a few inches to a few feet deep.

Real Quicksand is actually more buoyant than water. When a person is faced with this awful predicament, the idea is not to resist vigorously, but to spread your arms and legs wide, and attempt to float and gain buoyancy which is entirely possible because of the physics involved. Many however dig themselves deeper into the mire because they kick, squirm, and fight vigorously.

Real Quicksand offers an analogy to a peril of adversity we might face in our day-to-day lives. In fact, much of divine revelation is given in analogy. There are allusions to Spiritual Quicksand in the Bible (i.e. miry pit of clay), such as the Psalms of David. Admittedly, there are times in the believer's life where they may encounter Spiritual Quicksand. That quicksand might represent unaddressed sin in our life or some grave adversity, hardship, temptation, or calamity.

The irony about Real Quicksand is that those trapped in it, often do exactly what they should not do... rather than attempt to float, they might resist, and clamor about vigorously, and their resistance only pulls them deeper into the mire. Similarly, when we are faced with Spiritual Quicksand, which may represent sin, or some trial or grave adversity, and we fail to respond accordingly, we may bring greater calamity upon ourselves. Perhaps some of my readers can relate as I expound further.

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The Real-Life Phenomenon of Spiritual Quicksand!
Sometimes, the Spiritual Quicksand might be some mild challenge, and our problem is that we respond and make something trivial into an awful calamity by our misguided response. Many of us run into a mire or pit in our personal lives, and dig ourselves deeper because we fail to respond in an appropriate manner, or walk in faith. We might become resentful at the circumstances, and fight vigorously, and lash out, only to dig ourselves deeper into the calamity. Such perilous circumstances often overwhelms our resources quickly.

Sometimes, a person may be wronged or hurt by another, and when wronged they might fail to respond in a manner according to God's Word. Romans 12:14 tells us, "Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse." Rather than walk in faith, however, the person trapped in the mire may turn bitter, spiteful, ambivalent, and develop a bad attitude which only deepens their afflictions and delays their escape from the peril.

Whether we get ourselves into a spiritual mess of our own making, or perhaps in a mess because we were wronged and did not respond as a Christian ought to respond is secondary. Irrespective of what brought upon the calamity of Spiritual Quicksand, those times in the mire can be debilitating, spiritually demoralizing and emotionally painful. To overcome the despair and hopelessness as we wallow in the mire, we have to come back to the Cross and the Gospel. We must set our sights on God's promises, and plea for His intercession. We may even experience a sense of frailty, hopelessness, abandon, spitefulness, susceptibility to sin, and an all-around bad attitude as our flesh wars with our spirit along the way. All the more, the pains of our affliction reminds us of our need for God's grace, and our unequivocal dependence upon Him. This is precisely why we have to fight the good fight of faith, and fight to recover the joy of our salvation.

What the Bible tells us about adversity.
Have you fell into some hardship, or are you treading around the dangerous wilderness in the vicinity of spiritual quicksand? Maybe you've taken the deluge into the miry pit. I've been there. As a believer, we have an advocate in Jesus Christ, and we only have to reach out to him.

I am reminded of the example of Joseph whose brothers sold him into slavery. Nonetheless, what man had intended for evil, God intended for good. Joseph may have been something of a spoiled brat, the favored son, but God had a plan and purpose for his life, and raised him up to be a great leader. As Jerry Bridges notes,
Joseph's brothers thought they were getting rid of their brother of whom they were exceedingly envious. But God planned all along to use their scheme to send Joseph ahead of them to be their provider during the seven years of famine. They their actions for evil but God intended them for good. —Bridges, Jerry. Trusting God: Even When Life Hurts (Colorado Springs, CO: NavPress, 1988. p. 130)
Joseph underwent a series of grave adversities in his youth, and his character was most assuredly forged in that adversity. First, he was sold into slavery by his brothers, and it was through Reuben's intercession that he was given away, that he was not murdered outright. In turn, these slavers soon sold Joseph as a slave to Potiphar, "one of Pharaoh's officials, and the captain of the guard" (Genesis 37:36). The Lord blessed Potiphar's house for Joseph's sake, and realizing the source of his success, Potiphar eventually made Joseph overseer over his house (Genesis 39:2-6). Though, Joseph's short-lived gain soon fell apart, as Potiphar's wife tempted him with sexual advances and then falsely accused him of adultery thereafter. Joseph was subsequently thrown in prison, but later called upon by Pharaoh to interpret his dream. After success with that, he become a trusted confidant and advisor and was freed, and literally rose to become his chief-of-staff or prime minister. But what man intended for evil, God intended for good in preparedness for Joseph's character and appointed mission. Joseph foresaw a great famine, and made preparations by saving surplus food in the state granaries during the good seasons (Genesis 39-42).

Joseph Interprets Pharaoh's Dream
Joseph Interprets Pharaoh's Dream


Likewise, David comes to mind, as he was pursued by Saul and a conspiracy was arrayed against him to destroy him. Yet David was called "a man after God's own heart" (1 Sam. 13:14), and nonetheless we see in his life that he stumbled and fell egregiously on several occasions. Yet he called out to God in his adversity, and looked to the One and Only source of strength we have when we are in the mire.
1 I waited patiently for the LORD;
And He inclined to me,
And heard my cry.
2 He also brought me up out of a horrible pit,
Out of the miry clay,
And set my feet upon a rock,
And established my steps.
3 He has put a new song in my mouth—
Praise to our God;
Many will see it and fear,
And will trust in the LORD. (Psalm 40)
Even when we're in the miry clay—when all seems lost and hopeless—we can turn to God. Always remember that. Sometimes, the prodigal Christian will make things worse on himself, and fall into a spirit of rebellion, bitterness, and riotous living. We might become amoral in our speech, open to temptation, or simply spite others who have wronged us or even worse spite those who have not wronged us at all. Such a perilous state of being is not for the believer, for we are commanded to bless our enemies as surely as we are commanded to bless our neighbors.

At other times, our Spiritual Quicksand could be barely attributable to our own sinful actions, but the sinful actions of others.

All of these contributing factors to Spiritual Quicksand are ultimately inconsequential, and the key point is that we have an advocate in Christ Jesus when all seems lost. When we are up to our heads in the mire, we can most assuredly turn to God in prayer, place our trust in Him, reach out for his rescuing hand. We can literally pray the psalmist's prayers and plead for God to rescue us from our calamity and pull us from our miry pit of clay. "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Rom. 8:31)

Building trust, means setting our sights on the promises of God as believers. Psalm 103:12 tells us, "As far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us." And as God sets our feet on solid ground, we can come out stronger having endured our adversity, by setting our trust in the sovereign Lord. A familiar verse, Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us, "Trust in the LORD with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." We must recognize that our Lord Jesus Christ cares for us, and our eternal destiny is set if we are truly of faith. If we are weak in faith, we should turn to God, and ask him to sustain and strengthen our faith.

"He brought me up also out of an horrible pit, out of the miry clay, and set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings."
—Psalm 40:2


What Jesus Demands of The World - Love Your Neighbor!

What Jesus Demands of the World
In his acclaimed book What Jesus Demands of the World, pastor John Piper writes:
The focus of the “second” commandment—“You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Matt. 22:39)—is not on whether the receiver of love is an enemy or a friend, but on whether the one who loves desires the neighbor’s good as he desires his own. Its importance is seen by the two stupendous things that lie on either side of it. On one side is the greatest commandment in the Word of God—“You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” On the other side is the assertion that everything written in the Law and the Prophets hangs on these two commandments. We are in the company of incomparable superlatives—the two greatest commandments in the entire Word of God, and all of that Word hanging on them. We should take off our shoes in reverence here. There are few texts of Scripture greater than this.

An Overwhelming and Staggering Command
The second commandment seems to me to be an overwhelming commandment. It seems to demand that I tear the skin off my body and wrap it around another person so that I feel that I am that other person; and all the longings that I have for my own safety and health and success and happiness I now feel for that other person as though he were me. It is an absolutely staggering commandment. If this is what it means, then something unbelievably powerful and earthshaking and reconstructing and overturning and upending will have to happen in our souls. Something supernatural. Something well beyond what self-preserving, self-enhancing, self-exalting, self-esteeming, self-advancing, fallen human beings like me can do on their own.

On These Two Commandments Hang the Whole Law and the Prophets
What does this mean? Answering this question opens a window into heaven. We will see this if we start by contrasting what Jesus says here in Matthew 22:40 with what he says in Matthew 7:12. This verse is better known as the Golden Rule. One way to see it is as a good commentary on “Love your neighbor as you love yourself.” In that context, Jesus has just said that God will give us good things if we ask and seek and knock, because he is a loving Father. Then in Matthew 7:12 he says, “So whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.”

Tuesday, March 18, 2008

Excerpt - When I Don't Desire God: How to Fight For Joy

Piper, John, When I Don't Desire God: How to Fight For Joy, (Wheaton, IL: Good News / Crossway, 2004.)

Do not rejoice over me, my enemy;
When I fall, I will arise;
When I sit in darkness,
The LORD will be a light to me.
I will bear the indignation of the LORD,
Because I have sinned against Him,
Until He pleads my case
And executes justice for me.
He will bring me forth to the light;
I will see His righteousness.
—Micah 7:8-9
I referenced one of my devotionals: Micah chapter seven, particularly Micah 7:8-9. I have looked at John Piper's exegesis of this passage in a book, and he calls it gutsy guilt which I found interesting. It points us back to the doctrine of justification by faith alone, which is our consolation as believers. Christ paid the price! And we lay hold of his righteousness not our own. Isaiah 64:6 says our best works are like filthy rags in his eyes, which is why lay hold of Christ's imputed righteousness, not our own. What of the irony of bearing God's indignation, and then the plea that God would execute justice for me? It says something about the duality of man. Though, we are yet sinners, if we are of faith, we are partakers of Heavenly inheritance. It's a perennial affirmation of Christian teaching that though we may be chastened of God, He loves His flock unconditionally, and He ultimately chastens us because He loves us (Hebrews 12:8).
But I said that this text describes gutsy guilt. Astonishingly, in all his contrition and gloom under God´s anger, Micah gets in the face of his enemy and says, "Rejoice not over me, O my enemy; when I fall, I shall rise." The enemy is rubbing it in. The enemy is saying that the sin of Micah cuts him off from his God. The enemy is lying and trying to make Micah hopeless. This is a major battle against Micah´s joy in God. And Micah fights well he preaches the gospel of justification by faith. He gives us an example of how to fight for joy with the weapon of the gospel.

He says, "When I sit in darkness, the LORD will be a light to me." Remember, this darkness is the Lord's discipline. God's indignation burns. And in the midst of the darkness imposed by God, Micah says, "God will be my light." He counts on God's light in the darkness that God himself has sent. That is gutsy. That is what we must learn to do in our darkness even the darkness we have brought on ourselves because of our sin. Yes, I am under the gloom of failure. Yes, God has put me here in his displeasure. But no, I am not abandoned, and God is not against me. He is for me. Even in the darkness that he imposes, he will sustain me. He will not let me go. Though he slay me, he will save me. We must learn to preach to ourselves like this in our fight for joy.

Then, even more astonishingly, Micah says, "I will bear the indignation of the LORD because I have sinned against him, until he pleads my cause and executes judgment for me." In the midst of his guilt, and in the gloom of its consequences, he knows that a limit has been set to the darkness. God will come. "And when he comes, he will come pleading my cause." He will be my advocate, not the prosecuting attorney. The one who has thrown him in the jail of darkness will pay his bail and plead his case in court and make sure that he goes free to live in joy again.

DarknessHe goes even further and says that when God comes to him in the darkness, he will execute judgment for him. Micah's enemies are saying that he has fallen and that this means God is against him. Isn't it clear, Micah? You yourself admit that you sinned. You yourself say that God is angry. You yourself say that the darkness and gloom are from the Lord. There is only one reasonable explanation: God is executing judgment against you. You may have once called him Father, but no longer. Now he is Judge. You are guilty, and the judgment is falling against you. That's what the enemy says.

Against all this reasonable accusation (from self, Satan, or others) Micah preaches the doctrine of justification by faith. If he had lived on this side of the cross of Christ, he would be making the ground of God´s mercy explicit, namely, the righteousness of Jesus Christ. He says, "Watch out all you who speak thus. My God—my covenant God who declares me righteous by faith and not by works is about to execute judgment for me. That means you, my enemies, will be the ones judged. Take heed, and learn from my rising hope and gutsy guilt the doctrine of justification by faith alone." If you do not learn this, your joys in this life will all be based on an illusion that your ship is unsinkable.
Piper, John. When I Don't Desire God. (Wheaton, Illinois: Crossway Books, 2004), pp. 88-90.




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Book Review - When the Darkness Will Not Lift: Doing What We Can While We Wait for God--and Joy

Piper, John, When the Darkness Will Not Lift: Doing What We Can While We Wait for God—and Joy, (Wheaton, IL: Good News / Crossway, 2006.)

When the Darkness Will Not Lift: Doing What We Can While We Wait for God—and Joy is insightful work by Baptist pastor John Piper. Piper examines the phenomenon of depression or melancholy from a Biblical perspective. This succinct book began as an epilogue to an earlier book When I Don't Desire God: How to Fight For Joy. Herein, Piper seeks to offer guidance and encouragement for those for whom joy seems to stay out of reach. As the book capsule summary notes, "Even the most faithful, focused Christian can encounter periods of depression and spiritual darkness when joy seems to stay just out of reach. It can happen because of sin, satanic assault, distressing circumstances, or hereditary and other physical causes." And despite its brevity, this potent little book brings consolation for the downhearted believers in Christ.

One of the best known hymns is William Cowper's "God Moves In A Mysterious Way, His Wonders to Perform." Cowper was subject to melancholy and knew more about the dark side of Christian walk than its joy. It was out of experience that Cowper conjured these words: "Behind a frowning providence, he hides a smiling face."

Packed with practical advice for overcoming melancholy in God's strength, Piper rises up to the challenge of helping readers face depression. He does so, by perceptively affirming the truth of Scripture. Piper offers a broadside against the bad theology of prosperity theologians that misrepresents the Christian walk as one of happiness or an experience of ecstatic joy. Genuine believers in Christ gripped by despair find little consolation in shallow pseudo-Christian well-wishing clothed in spiritual garb that is aloof from their bleak reality. In truth, the Scriptures make it resoundingly clear that life in this fallen world is very much subject to pitfalls—including a life of adversity, hardship and toil. It's not surprising that the Apostle Paul admonished young Timothy, "You therefore must endure hardship as a good soldier of Jesus Christ" (2 Timothy 2:3). The challenge for the Christian—whether in the grip of a dark depression or simply faced with adverse challenges—is to fight for joy and savor the consolation of the Gospel promises. John Piper notes in his introduction:

"Richard Baxter... wrote with astonishing relevance about the complexities of dealing with Christians who seem unable to enjoy God. "Delighting in God, and in his word and ways," he said, "is the flower and life of true religion. But these that I speak of can delight in nothing--neither God, nor in his word, nor any duty." (pp. 12-13) As Puritan Richard Baxter would write in The Cure of Melancholy, "I have known grievous, despairing melancholy cured and turned into a life of godly cheerfulness, principally by setting upon constancy and diligence in the business of families and callings." Rising up to the challenges of adversity in the face of melancholy is the task of every Christian in their fight for joy. George McDonald, whom C.S. Lewis called "his master," would exhort the discouraged, proclaiming, "Heed not thy feelings: Do thy work." In other words, we should not let our feelings govern us, but our sense of duty and obligation as a Christian—which obviously includes the responsibilities of life.

Piper writes in the introduction:
This book began as the final chapter of a larger book titled When I Don’t Desire God: How to Fight for Joy. I hope that if this small book proves helpful, readers will consider what is in the larger one. There are crucial foundations in that larger book which are not included here. One of the most important is learning to fight for joy like a justified sinner. I call this “gutsy guilt.” Every embattled saint has learned this secret, even if they never called it by that name.

Gutsy guilt means learning to live on the rock-solid truth of what happened for us when Jesus Christ died on the cross and rose again from the dead. It means realizing that in this life we will always be sinful and imperfect. Therefore in ourselves we will always be guilty. This will prove emotionally devastating if we do not discover the reality of justification by faith, that is, the secret of gutsy guilt. This is not the only weapon with which we fight for joy in the darkness of discouragement, but it is one of the most foundational and the most important.
Piper, John. When the Darkness Will Not Lift: Doing What We Can While We Wait for God—and Joy. (Wheaton, Illinois: Crossway Books, 2004), p. 10.
John BunyanSometimes, God uses depression to get his flock's attention, and have them on their knees, contrite and mournful over sin. The author of The Pilgrim's Progress, John Bunyan, related the struggles of his twenty-something youth:
A whole flood of blasphemies, both against God, Christ, and the Scriptures were poured upon my spirit, to my great confusion and astonishment... My heart was at times exceeding hard. If I would have given a thousand pounds for a tear, I could not shed one... Oh, the desperateness of man’s heart... I feared that this wicked sin of mine might be that sin unpardonable... Oh, no one knows the terrors of those days but myself.
Piper, John. When I Don't Desire God. (Wheaton, Illinois: Crossway Books, 2004), p. 86.
What struck Bunyan in the midst of his discord and soul-searching was this profound epiphany:
One day as I was passing into the field... this sentence fell upon my soul. Thy righteousness is in heaven. And ... I saw with the eyes of my soul Jesus Christ at God's right hand; there, I say, was my righteousness; so that wherever I was, or whatever I was doing, God could not say of me, he [lacks] my righteousness, for that was just before him. I also saw, moreover, that it was not my good frame of heart that made my righteousness better, nor yet my bad frame that made my righteousness worse, for my righteousness was Jesus Christ himself, “The same yesterday, today, and forever.” Heb. 13:8. Now did my chains fall off my legs indeed. I was loosed from my afflictions and irons; my temptations also fled away; so that from that time those dreadful scriptures of God [about the unforgivable sin] left off to trouble me; now went I also home rejoicing for the grace and love of God.
Piper, John. When I Don't Desire God. (Wheaton, Illinois: Crossway Books, 2004), pp. 86-87.
Piper's sound advice admonishes against lingering in a state of depression rooted in self-absorption and self-pity. As Piper writes, "Sometimes the darkness of our souls is owing in part to the fact that we have drifted into patterns of life that are not blatantly sinful but are constricted and uncaring" (p. 61). Moreover, Piper consoles those struggling in a season of despondency to find solace in the Gospel of Jesus Christ, and being a faithful witness of Him. Partaking in the Gospel proclamation can be a profound source of hope for one in despair. As Isaiah 58:11-12 declares,
The LORD will guide you continually,
And satisfy your soul in drought,
And strengthen your bones;
You shall be like a watered garden,
And like a spring of water, whose waters do not fail.
Those from among you
Shall build the old waste places;
You shall raise up the foundations of many generations;
And you shall be called the Repairer of the Breach,
The Restorer of Streets to Dwell In.

“Who among you fears the LORD and obeys the voice of his servant? Let him who walks in darkness and has no light trust in the name of the LORD and rely on his God."
—Isaiah 50:10


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